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henshengs:

Tbh I think fandom generally needs to get better at sitting with the uncomfortable fact that a story/fanwork/meme/whatever can hurt one person and help another

This is why I think “tag warning” culture is kinder and more constructive than cancel culture / “no problematic content” culture. One size does not fit all, but if we learn to be more aware of the fact that the same thing can be emotionally validating or cathartic to one person and upsetting to another, and pick up a general mindset of thinking before we post, “what might people need a heads up for in this content?”, we grow more compassionate, more thoughtful, and more understanding of the differences in people’s experiences.

this is how maybe for one person, reading a fic about someone escaping an abusive relationship can be liberating, and for another person it’s triggering. how headcanoning a person as binary trans may hurt people who believe them to be nonbinary. you will never be able to make a character so perfectly perfect that they satisfy everyone, and you literally cannot. all you can do is just… do what makes you happy, and use appropriate tags to keep viewers safe.

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